Because some weeks just need bagels and tenderness.
Some weeks don’t tie up neatly. This was one of those. I came into it tired and am leaving it feeling a little more undone — stretched thin by motherhood, misaligned in marriage, and unsure about where I’m standing in my life and calling. If you’re feeling frayed at the edges too, come sit with me. There’s room here for the real and the raw. No fixing, just presence — and maybe a little grace.
I’ll be honest — this week has felt like a wave I couldn’t quite stand up in.
Marriage has felt fragile. The kids have been sick and clingy. Work feels uncertain, like I’m moving through fog. And under it all is this quiet, aching question: Is this where I’m meant to be? Or have I lost something along the way?
There’s a kind of loneliness that can show up even when you’re surrounded by people you love. A kind of exhaustion that doesn’t sleep off. A kind of longing for clarity, for peace, for just one thing to feel settled.
I don’t have a neat bow to tie on this. I just know I’m not the only one feeling this way. So if your week was hard too — if you’re ending it with more questions than answers — I see you.
You don’t need to be strong right now. You don’t need to fix it all by Friday.
You’re allowed to be held. To cry in the kitchen. To whisper a prayer that sounds more like a sigh. To let grace carry you when you can’t carry yourself.
This space — Everything Bagels & Grace — was never meant to be polished. Just honest. Just real. Just a place where the weary can sit down and say, me too.
So… me too. And I’m glad you’re here.
With love and crumbs,
-J



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